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Assalamualaikum and  hello guys . Our life full with greet , meet and goodbye . They said first impression would stay forever . Agree with that such statement ? I'm not fully agree with that because i never ever  leaving such a great impact in any first meet . I'm such malu-malu kucing punya olang hehe.Dah berminggu baru nak tunjuk belang the real me . Itu pun when i was around my close friend lah .

What would be you guys punya first impression ? Mine for sure = sombong , takut orang nak dekat . Apa yang boleh dilihat , my bestfriends yang stay sekarang mostly ialah orang yang first tegur dulu when we were in our first met . Wow , i just realized that ! Maybe i'm such a shy person (konon) when i meet a new friend but when i comfortable with anyone i'll becoming open .  Betul lah , takkan after a year kenal still nak gelak cover kot tutup mulut . Lol rasa macam hyde and jekyll pula ada 2 dominant character . Eh tak boleh , hyde and jekyll hyunbin handsome !

For me as long as our first impression tu tak jadi negatif sangat then its okaylah . Impression tu kira macam judgemental lah kan ? Aip , baru first time jumpa dah nak judging , no no no . Lets become such warm and open person . Tak payah nak judge orang sangat lah , kita pun bukan semua orang suka pun . Jadi jangan nak cari musuh pula . (tengah nasihat diri sendiri)

Penting ke first impression ? for me nope secara tak formal but in formal way sememangnya penting . Formal dan tak formal . Formal such as during interview , interviewer confirm tengok appearance candidate dulu baru dia decide nak kasi jawatan or tidak . While tak formal macam in friendship atau aktiviti seharian.

Okay actually kan ,during minggu orentasi when i was a student i always jadi lone ranger because idk how to become sweet talker puji  others , chat about fancy things . I saw some did this and its  work . Well it won't be permanent (friendship seems u kinda fake here) but its  a good try , at least that person do something and not like me . I just sit there and observe other , ouh dont forget that i pray so hard that orentasi session to end fast ! I'm not introvert , but i know first meet people akan judge you kaw-kaw in their brain but cover dengan senyuman ( look what happen when i start  overthinking)

It took me 2 weeks to warm up ~ Actually even until end of semester i still known as lone ranger , but its kinda worth it . Since i can make a lot of friends and not only stick dengan satu geng je . Well , thats what i thought . First impression or last impression , i hope we gonna leave a good memories to others . Even , we as human tak lari dari buat silap , tapi why not we try untuk bagi a good impression kepada orang lain . Don't forget to always be nice and gentle .